Motherhood isn’t one story, Its thousands.Real Stories From Mums Navigating Identity, Change & Rediscovery
Every mother’s story of identity is unique. Here, you’ll find honest diary entries from mothers navigating identity loss, mum guilt, and rediscovery in all its forms.
Because when we share our stories, we reclaim our sense of self.
I just don’t fit : Georgie
After a traumatic recovery and an early return to work, I loved my daughter deeply but felt lost in my new identity until I realised that not fitting anymore was part of becoming someone new.
Motherhood at 45: the life we used to have
After years of IVF heartache, I finally have my miracle daughter at 45,. But some days I'm grieving the life I had before, feeling guilty for missing lazy weekends while simultaneously wondering how I got so lucky.
The plan is... there is no plan
I had my life meticulously planned - career, marriage, family…but nothing prepared me for how motherhood, a blended family, and the constant noise of others' opinions would challenge my sense of self at every stage.
From one mother to anotherShare Your Story With the Mum Love Community
Mum Love is a safe space to share your story of becoming a mum. Everyone's experience is different; from elation to identity loss after becoming a mum to the pressures of being the 'right' mother, we want to hear from you.
When we share, we heal, we grow, and we open the door for other mums who may be feeling the same.
If you feel ready, we welcome you to share your story with us.
“I CRY BECAUSE THE FEEL OF MY OWN BODY IS COMPLETELY UNKOWN TO ME AND NOBODY WARNED ME ABOUT THAT.”
Hollie McNish, Nobody Told Me